HEAL YOUR MARRIAGE

(even if your beloved is resistant to it)

HOW TO TAKE CONTROL OF YOUR MARRIAGE AND MAKE IT EVERYTHING YOU'VE EVER WANTED, WITHOUT WAITING FOR YOUR BELOVED TO FIX IT

"My relationship with my wife has improved and we are working through things more positively. Her and I both are now aware of how different we are and most of the time are able to appreciate these differences. We discuss things more now than we ever did before life coaching." - Nicholas D.

LIVING IN A DESTRUCTIVE UNHAPPY MARRIAGE IS DEBILITATING. IT OFTEN FEELS LIKE THERE IS NO WAY OUT...

YOU DON'T HAVE TO SUFFER ANYMORE...

Do you…

  • Often find your partner to be emotionally shut down or detached from you, and it’s making you feel alone?
  • Feel that you can’t communicate effectively anymore: fighting over the irrelevant stuff, and understanding the silliness of the argument, but still not being able to stop it?
  • Argue to the point where it feels like all the words have been already said, dragging you both through all kinds of hell, overwhelmfrustration and emotional exhaustion only to have nothing changed at all?
  • Feel guilty seeing your kids suffering through these arguments or the negative energy that is in the air, and even through what they don’t see between their parents (love, joy, genuine care, trust, affection and happinness) and you know it isn’t good for them and their future?
  • Have much less closeness/connection/vulnerability, less intimacy/passion/playfullness/sex with your husband or wife (or none of that at all) to the point where it feels like you are just roommates or co-parents?
  • Look at other couples who are happy, laughing and holding hands and you just feel lost in how to find that kind of joy and connection yourself?
  • Ask yourself if you should fight for your marriage, or just give up on it (contemplating divorce)?
  • Have success in other areas of your life but despite trying hard already, you just can’t get this marriage piece to work?
  • Often feel criticized and blamed unjustly by your beloved? 
  • Feel that your marriage is costing you not only your happiness and joy, but also your health?
  • Spend months convincing your partner to start attending couples therapy sessions?
  • Then spend months in that therapy only to make very little progress, if any?
  • Feel that those couples therapy sessions actually made things between you even worse, leaving you feeling helpless and out of control.
  • Want to fix it all, but you just don’t know how to.

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DO YOU FEEL LIKE YOU NEED TO HAVE ALL THE ANSWERS?

MOST PEOPLE DO!

This need is ingrained in us from a very early age: when we’re in school and the teacher calls on us, we’re supposed to know the right answer. And we are expected to have ALL the right answers, all the time, for years... All the way through elementary school, middle school, high school, college. We’re expected to have the right answers on aptitude tests, skills tests, job interviews. 

And, of course, in Marriage!

It's a stigma against getting help, like there’s something wrong with you if you are having challenges in your marriage. Like you should work it out by yourself and if you ask for help, that makes you someone weak. But this is totally wrong.

This stigma that only leads to feelings of shame, hopelessness, isolation, often lack of understanding by family and friends, and this reluctance to ask for help only makes the marital struggle worse. Many men even if they understand what they need to do to improve their marriage, mess this up because they don’t have the support structure they need to actually create the relationship they want.

And if you’ve ever been in any kind of a leadership role within an organization, you know that It is impossible to have all the right answers. And when it comes to overcoming challenges in your marriage, no matter how inspired or well intentioned you are, trying to fix something as complicated as marriage without support simply doesn’t work.

You need a mentor who has walked the path already, who can see you where you are at clearly. And there is no shame at all in getting the best help out there. We do it for everything else, right? Successful people spend tens and sometimes hundreds of thousands of dollars on their education and careers. And your marriage is worth far more than your job or your house.

So there is a total no brainer to be investing in your marriage. And frankly, there is too much at risk to go at it alone. The average cost of divorce in USA is $30.000 per couple, splitting assets and investments can run into hundreds of thousands of dollars, thousands of dollars in setting up one or two new homes, which is a lot of money altogether by itself.

And when divorce happens, they no longer have a teammate to dream and build their life with and it is absolutely devastating. And we have only mentioned the financial costs. The emotional costs are worse. In divorce you are losing not just a teammate, but your best friend, plus parts of your family and your social circles.

Your kids are suffering over their broken family for the rest of their lives and your self esteem is crushed. It is really traumatic and the pain continues for years and often tens of years. And I know that you don’t want that and neither you nor your beautiful family deserve it. No one does. So investing in a mentor to help you save your marriage is an absolute must.

THAT'S WHY I CREATED A COACHING PROGRAM TO HELP YOU GET YOUR MARRIAGE FROM STRUGGLING TO THRIVING!

"You definitely gave me the strength to understand a lot more about myself as well as my wife. Thank you for reminding me that we will always love each other no matter what obstacles are in our way and that we make a great team together." - Carlos S

INTRODUCING THE 
THRIVING MARRIAGE FORMULA

A SIMPLE STEP BY STEP PROCESS THAT EMPOWERS YOU TO BUILD THE EXACT MARRIAGE YOU DREAM OF, EVEN IF YOUR PARTNER IS RESISTANT TO IT!

Open your mind to what is possible in your own marriage.

Take a minute and IMAGINE how would you feel when you finally:

TAKE CONTROL OF YOUR MARRIAGE

Make it everything you’ve ever wanted: the best family future with most thriving kids, thriving joy, thriving love, thriving finances, a relationship full of trust, security, excitement and happiness.

REPAIR TRUST

Learn to use your conflicts as tools to repair broken trust between you and allow your relationship to grow in a positive direction.

REESTABLISH CONNECTION

Reestablish that authentic, “soulmate-best friend” type of connection with your husband or wife, as well as incredible passionate emotional intimate connection, so you’ll never want to avoid intimacy again.

YOU'RE A ROLE MODEL FOR YOUR KIDS

Have absolute confidence that you’re modeling the kind of marriage that your children will follow and thrive from for the rest of their lives, so you never feel that father's or mother’s guilt again.

MAKE YOUR BELOVED ADMIRE YOU AGAIN

Win their heart back and feel fully understood and admired by them. Get the attention you desire and deserve, so they are always there for you, when you really need them.

FEEL SAFE IN YOUR MARRIAGE

Never feel alone in your marriage again. Your husband or wife now attunes to your emotions, instead of dismissing, minimizing and mocking them or ignoring them altogether, distracting you from them, and trying to fix you.

And how would you feel if you have created all of that by stepping into the greatest version of yourself and without: 

  • Waiting for your partner to fix your marriage, 
  • fear of making things worse or losing everything.
  • reading tons of self-help books. 
  • going to therapy and having awkward conversations about your past, 
  • any of the other stuff you don’t want to do.

IT CAN BE YOUR REALITY.

With The Thriving Marriage Formula you will no longer have to imagine!  You will make it a reality and tap into a whole new dimension of life, that is so much richer than the one you’ve been living.

Hi, My Name is Sergey Shevtsov!

I believe that creating happy healthy passionate relationships is a set of beliefs, skills and disciplines that can be taught and practiced.

My journey began when my first marriage ended in a painful divorce and I went through a devastating separation with my 2-year-old daughter. That moment was my wake up call that forced me to hire a relationship coach and begin a deep mental and spiritual quest searching for answers on what it takes to create a healthy, happy and passionate Intimate relationship. It became my obsession. I went to study it on a deeper level, I've read tens of books on the subject, became a certified coach and hypnotherapist! 

3 months after I hired my relationship coach I met my current wife, and now almost 10 years later, our love and passion for each other is stronger than ever and it keeps growing every day. This doesn’t mean we didn’t have our tough challenges (all couples do), but we learned to use them as tools to become even closer and better as a power couple.

Now I support people in creating and maintaining greater love, health and passion in their relationships and I look forward to serving you.

How The Thrivivng Marriage Formula Works

PILLAR 1: STEPPING INTO YOUR LEADERSHIP.

As long as you keep wishing for your husband or wife to lead and solve all problems of your marriage, you will continue to be a victim, feel powerless and the vicious cycle of your marriage problems will continue as well. The truth is you don’t need your partner to be on board to start turning your marriage around.

Wise men and women are leaders who create their own reality. Once you stop blaming others and become a leader, you start thinking BIG and making decisions that are in a deep alignment and congruence with who you really are.

I have systems and techniques that will help you step into your own unique leadership and that’s when you can love and understand your beloved easily and build a powerful connection with him or her through that love and authenticity.

PILLAR 2: BUILDING TRUST.

Building deep trust is about facing your deepest fears, tap into your inner strength, and bring to your partner what they need most. Trust is not built during the easy times, but in defining moments of uncertainty and stress, when our loyalty, our priorities, and our commitment come into question.

When your commitment withstands these tests, your trust will expand and grow to new levels, giving you new levels of freedom, comfort, and love. When during those moments you fail to increase your trust, you will have difficulty making progress in many areas of your relationship. The principle behind trust is quite simple. We trust people when we feel they care about what we need.

Trust is built at those moments when the pressure is such that you are tempted to put yourself first and put your partner's needs second. That is precisely the time to take the opportunity to put your partner first and so create a strong bond of trust and love. Trust is based on mutual high standards about meeting each other's needs.

You will learn how to create deep trust with your partner and to do it by being yourself. You'll learn the power of forgiving and forgetting, while letting go of any threats and judgement.

PILLAR 3: CREATING INTIMACY.

Love and Commitment is enough for a friendship, but not for a long-term, happy, self-sustaining intimate relationship. What makes a relationship intimate is intimacy. Lack of intimacy is one of the top reasons for breakups, divorces, and infidelity.

Intimacy is about letting your partner under your skin— physically and emotionally. It's an opening and a vulnerability which must be earned, not taken for granted, and once you have intimacy, it must be appreciated, cherished, and cultivated.

We are talking about emotional, intellectual, physical/sexual intimacy. We are talking about Presence, Playfulness and Passion. We will work on creating intimacy between you and your husband or wife so your relationship can go to a whole other level.

I will be walking with you side by side laying out the plan and making sure that you follow it. You will have daily accountability and check ins to answer any questions that you have and to make any adjustments necessary. You will no longer be alone.

TAKE CONTROL OF YOUR MARRIAGE AND MAKE IT EVERYTHING YOU'VE EVER WANTED!

 You have been feeling alone. You have been feeling like a loser, because you feel like you failed your marriage. You have been wondering "why me". There is so much pain inside you and you keep pushing it down.

And you know that if you keep doing that, it's not going to end good for anyone involved.
Not for you. Not for your kids. Not for your beloved. 

It's a very dark place to be in. And the longer you take to fix this, the worse your marriage and your life will get.
How long will you sit in this misery?

You are fully aware that you can't go on like this. You know that something has to change.
If Not Now, When?

You have been asking for help. Well, HELP IS HERE. The light you are seeking and the path to your desired future are just a phone call away.

You can get through years of emotional pain in just several months. And You owe it to yourself and to your kids to heal your marriage.

Decide today to trade your pain, victimhood and grief for love, passion and happiness!